Natural Relationships
As a believer you want to avoid these "get to know you as a person" type of thinking. Don't just want to "be" with someone. It is O.K. and healthy to have sexual goals and desires. These are not stifling things, but they make life exciting, they are not "evil" or "dirty". People often gravitate toward "I want a real relationship with someone who cares" and this is fine, but often we are not honest about what really enthralls us and we settle for wanting "ordinary and situations, which we might conjure up in our minds, but might not actually exist! Being a good person is of course essential. I'm not telling you to go out and sell your body for profit, mind you! Try to be a little more honest however about what your real needs are as a person.
Have a good day.
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